Sunday, May 31, 2009

The Juggling Game

This is really about my life as it is these days.

Sometimes I feel like I've bitten off more than I can chew. I certainly felt that way when we missed our plane connection in Denver and had to spend the night in the airport. I was getting over a cold and worn out from being at Mayhem in the Midlands in Omaha--though I had a wonderful time.

I skipped my writing critique group this week because I knew I needed to stay home and rest.

We are in the process of remodeling two downstairs bedrooms into one so we can move downstairs. I love my upstairs room, but hubby's knees give him fits at times and he'd like to stop having to climb up and down. The process has gone on for awhile as we've had to rely on a grandson and friends who did most of the work--far less expensive than the job done on the bathroom by professionals--and frankly the time wasn't any more.

Hubby is finishing up and we'll soon be able to start hauling things down. Fortunately, the youth at church are having a yard sale soon so we can get rid of quite a lot of stuff there.

My promotion for both No Sanctuary and Kindred Spirits is ongoing and I've done lots for that with much more coming in the future.

We're heading to Pasadena for the new California Crime Writers Conference where I'm going to be on a panel Sunday morning about e-publishing. We'll spend Saturday night in the hotel--but plan to leave right after the panel even though I could stay for the conference the rest of the day for free.

However, I'm learning that I only have just so much stamina and the very next week we leave for Las Vegas and the Public Safety Writers Conference. I'm the program chair for that event and also will be helping with the registration so I have lots of prepare for.

While all this is going on, I'm working on a rather complicated ghost writing project. At spare moments, I've been trying to finish up my own work-in-progress. And of course I have to take care of bills, cleaning bathrooms, doing the laundry and putting some food on the table.

Who ever guessed my retirement years would be so busy? Certainly not I!

Being able to vent like this on my own blog is helpful whether anyone finds it entertaining or not.

Back to the ghost writing.


Saturday, May 30, 2009

Sorry, Can't Do What I Promised

Yesterday, I promised to write what some of the authors at Mayhem revealed about themselves, but my notes have disappeared.

I think there must be gremlins in my office. Or part of it is age. Hubby and I keep misplacing things--hubby always blames it on whoever might have been visiting (kids or grandkids), I prefer to think it's gremlins.

In all honesty though, I suspect it is what I said first, we misplace things and can't remember where we put them.

In my case I have notes all over my office for my ghost writing project and my own work in progress, the materials I'm taking with me to the Public Safety Writers Association conference (because I'm the program chair) and some of the new items I've purchased for our bedroom that we are supposedly moving into next week. (I'll believe it when it happens.)

Perhaps as the piles diminish around me, I'll come across my notes.

In any case, this is all you're getting for today.


Friday, May 29, 2009

Mayhem Panel on Forensics

Jan Burke, who is highly involved with the Crime Lab Project, pointed out that we need to be aware that there is a vast different between real life and TV and movies. The detectives still need to do their work. Many of the labs that work on DNA aren't accredited. Even the FBI has made mistakes with DNA. It's not the DNA that goes wrong, it's the people working with it who make the mistakes.

Because readers have a vague idea at least crime scene investigation techniques, the author needs to have some knowledge too.

Crime scene investigation varies from county to county, might even vary from shift to shift--and even who makes the decision as to whether or not there will be an autopsy.

There is always the possibility of human error and cross contamination no matter how good the lab and the pathologist.

Too much detail can date a book, because investigation techniques keep changing.

Some author are getting too fascinated by all the new stuff and are forgetting to write a good story. After all, if someone wants to know all the scientific detail they can read a text book.

DNA is overrated by the general public. If someone you know kills you, that person's DNA will be all over the house. DNA might not be on file. It's expensive to process DNA.

A coroner can be anyone, some are elected officials with no forensic experience. Many medical examiners are questionable, some may be the local funeral directors. Some counties don't have enough forensic people.

John and Jane Doe are often cremated with no testing done.

There is no good system for tracing people.

There are 12,000 untested rape kits and a ten-year back-up of rape-kit investigations.

Relying completely on technology is dangerous because if the technology breaks down, there will be lots of problems.

And a few interesting tidbits about cell-phones:

People do lose their cell phones.

Phones are often dropped in toilets.

An overcharged phone might blow up.

This was a dandy panel with Julie Kramer as the moderator, Jan Burke, Mary Jane Maffini, and Zoe Sharp.

Tomorrow I'm going to post what some of the authors revealed about themselves.

Marilyn a.k.a. F. M. Meredith

Authors need to be careful

Thursday, May 28, 2009

More About Mayhem

Now I can tell you who exactly was in the photo yesterday--Jan and Time Burke, Jessica and Sean Doolittle, Andy Butler and Zoe Sharp, Hap and Marilyn Meredith, John and Radine Nehring.

The panel the spouses were on was called: Marriage is a Mystery: Meet the Spouses.

Sally Fellows, one of the organizers of Mayhem, moderated and had some great questions for our spouses.

Here are some tidbits of what we learned:

Tim Burke said, "I like to hear what Jan writes before anyone else does."

Jessica Doolittle said, "When Sean becomes more secretive about his writing it means he's stuck."

Andy Butler said, "I can read pages over her shoulder." (They share an office. He's a writer of non-fiction.)

Hap said, "All is well as long as I'm quiet and don't interrupt."

John said, "He travels with Radine to places she might set a book and takes photos for her."

Other interesting tidbits we learned was from Tim, that when Jan is creating, what she's doing is all over the place. She loves research.

Jessica revealed that Sean often leaves a glass of water by the computer and the cat invariably spills it.

Tim worries about Jan's privacy.

Andy says there's no place to get rid of bodies.

John has no clue as to how much time is spent on writing and promotion. (John and Radine have been married years and years like we have.)

None of the other couples have any children--and for some reason Hap didn't mention that our lives are filled with our offspring: 5 children, 18 grandchildren and 11 great-grands. Not sure if he forgot or just didn't think it was important to impart the information.

It was definitely a fun panel

In case you don't know who Zoe Sharp is an internationally acclaimed crime thriller author, and was the International Guest of Honor.

Dana Stabenow was the guest of honor who has written 25 novels, including 15 Kate Shugak mysteries, set in Alaska.

The panels I participated in were Not Just a Royalty Check: What you Need to Know About Being Published. Radine moderated and the other panelists were Jim Overturf and Richard Thompson

and Off the Beaten Path: Exotic Locales and Cultures, moderated by Gary Bush (a special Mayhem friend), Michael Allan Mallory and Suzanne Arruda.

The panel I moderated was called Causes and Casualties: Issue Driven Fiction with panelists, Radine, Mary Connealy, and C. Hyytinen.

Other special people (special to me in that they are people I consider friends) at the conference were Carl Brookins, Pat Dennis (one of the funniest women I've ever met), Wm. Kent Krueger,Mary Jane Maffini, Ann Parker,and David Walker.

It was a great conference. Tomorrow I'll write about what I learned about forensics.

Marilyn a.k.a. F.M. Meredith

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Pictures from Mayhem

One of the panels that drew the most people and got the most laughs was the panel with the spouses of writers.

My husband and good friend Radine Trees Nehring's husband were on that panel along with Jan Burke's husband and others.

All my notes are in the luggage which didn't come home with us.

In case you haven't read my tweets and other postings, we were stranded in the Denver airport because of weather overnight. We could not get a plane to Bakersfield the next day either so had to fly into Fresno. Our son-in-law, God bless him, drove our other car all the way up there to fetch us, then drove us to Bakersfield to get our car.

So glad to be home.

When and if my notes arrive I'll have lots more to say about Mayhem, which was wonderful as usual.


Monday, May 25, 2009

Still inAirport

We slept here last night> Hubby on floor, me in 2 chairs. Maybe got two hours sleep in bits and pieces.

Airports are noisey, cold and way too light for sleeping at night.

when we first got to airport in Omaha we sat with Jan and Tim Burke.


Sunday, May 24, 2009


T have lots to report but too hard in this wee computer. Thanks to tornado warnings we are stuck in the airport till noon on Monday' We fly to Fresno and will have to be picked up then go to Bkrsfld to get our car.

Mayhem was great.saw lots of people. Ate yummy food.


Thursday, May 21, 2009


We've only eaten breakfast and said hi to a couple we know. Registration doesn't happen until this afternoon> Planned to go to the zoo but hubby isn't up to it. We will go to the Old Marketplace later and find a great place forlunch. Yes, food is important when you're in a place with so many great restaurants.

Will report more later. Marilyn

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

We"re here!

We got up aT 3 A.M.and left at 3:30 and arrived at the airport at 5. Poor hubby had to be wanded, he had a flashlight in his pocket and in another pocket, about 5 dimes.

We flew from Bakersfield to Denver, hiked a mile to get on the next plane. Good flights.

Next we're going yo Ahmad's for Persian food. Yum!

More later.


Reality TV

This is a confession--I do watch some reality TV. Most of the ones that I watch have concluded for the season.

Survivor ended on Sunday. I've watched faithfully since the very first one. Not always does the person win who I think should, but this time it turned out perfect. The fellow who was sure he had everyone doing what he wanted was fooled, and the young hillbilly who turned out to be much smarter than he looked, won the million dollars and he deserved every penny. He out played and out foxed everyone.

Dancing with the Stars ends tonight (I'm writing this on Tuesday because I'll be flying to Omaha tomorrow) so I don't know the results yet. The three finalists all deserve to be there. I think the judges have a favorite--we'll see how the fans vote.

Amazing Race is another one that recently ended. The best couple (brother and sister) won and they deserved it. At first they didn't play the game too well, but finally figured out what they were doing wrong and off they went. Besides being fit and having a lot of stamina, the player need to read the directions all the way through and do exactly what they are told to do. That's one of the big secrets to not getting into trouble.

I have a married granddaughter who wants to go on the Amazing Race with her husband. They are waiting until their youngest son is old enough to leave with his grandma and grandpa. (My daughter and son-in-law.) I hope the show lasts long enough for them to do it.

And the last one I watch that is all over now is Celebrity Apprentice. I can't believe how dump and uncooperative and in Joan River's case, mean, these celebrities can be. It sure give you a different view of people who are in the spotlight and are given a challenge and ought to work with their teammates, but don't seem to know how to do that.

I usually read during commercials so I don't fall asleep. Doesn't always work.

My eldest daughter and I always discuss these shows via email after each episode, adds to the enjoyment.

What I don't watch is the Biggest Loser or any show where people end up getting hurt. During the summer, sometimes I watch Big Brother--though not every single night.

I do all my writing during the daytime. And of course, sometimes I don't watch TV at all when something more interesting is going on.

Marilyn a.k.a. F. M. Meredith

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Last Day at Home for Awhile

Since we're taking off in the early a.m. to go to the airport, I probably won't be writing a blog tomorrow--though I may write one today that will appear tomorrow.

I'm already packed, hubby is upstairs packing now. It's still early and not too hot up there--we don't have air conditioning and since the weather has been hovering around 100, anything done there needs to be done quickly. So you don't think we roast at night, we have a wonderful window fan that brings in the cool breezes from the river down below us.

I've done all the laundry and plan to spend the majority of the day working on the ghost writing project I've been busy with for awhile.

This evening though, we must watch the results of Dancing With the Stars. This is the first time hubby has watched this with me and he's actually enjoying it--and I'm enjoying his company.

I'm taking my mini-computer with me so will be reporting on Mayhem in the Midlands from day to day.


Monday, May 18, 2009

Getting Ready for Mayhem

Anyone who knows me, knows that Mayhem in the Midlands is one of my favorite mystery cons. Hubby likes this one too. We both enjoy Omaha, especially the Old Marketplace which is right by the hotel, with wonderful restaurants and unique shops.

Most of what I like about Mayhem is the wonderful people who attend--and many are returnees year after year. We've made good friends with a teacher who lives in Omaha and always look forward to catching up with her. A mother and daughter who are avid mystery fans we love spending time with and usually enjoy a meal together. One of my favorite authors, Radine Trees Nehring and her husband will be there, and we haven't seen them for a couple of years, so it'll be a real treat so spend time with them.

I'm going to be on two panels and moderate one--and hubby gets to be on one this year called Spouses of Writers. He did this once before and it was a hoot!

Of course I have to pack the books I hope will sell there and the clothes I think I'll wear. Who knows what the weather will be like--the con is always the same time of year but we've frozen, roasted, experienced thunder storms and threats of tornadoes.

And there's the little things, like business cards and postcard--and my prescription medications.

I always have nightmares before I leave for one of these--did I remember to make my hotel reservation? Fortunately once I done that I write hotel done and for what on the front of my calendar so I can go back and check. Oh, of course they gave me a confirmation number, but I can't find it now.

The "famous" authors attending are Dana Stabenow and Jan Burke. I've enjoyed books by them both. Wm. Kent Krueger will also be there--he's another of my favorite authors.

I'm getting excited, it's always a nice vacation once we've landed.

a.k.a. F. M. Meredith

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Writers of Kern

Yesterday I was the speaker for the Writers of Kern, the Bakersfield Chapter of the California Writers Club. Though I am a member I don't often attend the meetings unless I've been asked to speak. I enjoyed seeing all of these people, but it's an hour and a half drive and when I'm promoting a book--which I've been doing since January, I limit what I'm doing to places where I'm speaking or selling my books.

I spoke about electronic publishing, something I'm really familiar with because I've been e-published long before there was any way to read an electronically published book except on a computer. Things have changed greatly since that time, there have been many e-readers offered including the iPhone--and now with the advent of Amazon's Kindle, more and more people are accepting the idea of reading electronic books. Actually, the words are the same as in any other book, just read on a different device.

I know I've talked about e-publishing to this group before, but they asked to come and talk about this topic, and they were definitely more accepting this time. I have a three page hand-out I use with the talk, and I saw people writing notes on it.

My books were purchased--I only took my two latest, Kindred Spirits and No Sanctuary
. Afterwards, hubby and I went to a nice restaurant for lunch.

It was a good day.

a.k.a. F. M. Meredith

Saturday, May 16, 2009

Proms, Grandchildren, After Hours Parties

I'm on Facebook with several of my grandchildren. It's fun to see most of the photos they put up (once in awhile there's one that makes me shudder) and see what they're up to these days.

One grandson has started his own construction business with a friend in Seattle and today he put up a message that he needed a bookkeeper. Makes me think the business is going okay. His brother is a rookie cop in Aspen Colorado and has put picture up of his windshield when driving through snow. Their little sister is the one I want to mention here.

She is sixteen, gorgeous, and going to her first prom. At first her messages were all about how excited she was to be going. Then I saw message that said, "I'm bummed." I asked what was wrong and she said there is going to be an after prom party at some guy's house and everyone is going--but her mother won't let her go.

I wrote and told her I though her mother was pretty smart. Among other things, I told her that there would be plenty more parties to go to, probably better than this one.

I raised three girls a long, long time ago, and it was scary enough back then. But they didn't have all night parties back in those days.

I was pleased to see that her step-sister who is seven years old got on there and said that I was right, and that she was glad her four parents (mom, step-father, father, step-mother) had been strict with her.

Knowing kids, she probably thinks we're both looney.

All anyone has to remember though is the lovely young girl who went to the island with her senior class and didn't come home. The consensus is she was probably sold for a sex slave. I'm sure her mother wishes now she'd never given permission.

And did you see the movie "Taken"? That's another strong case for not letting your kids do everything they want to do.

Of course we can't protect our kids all the time, but we can use common sense. Sixteen is too young to go to an after the prom party at some guy's house.

She's probably put me in the same class with her mom, but one day she'll have her own kids to worry about, then she'll understand. For right now, mom has done the right thing.

Hope she puts all that aside and just has fun at the prom.

a.k.a. Grandma

Friday, May 15, 2009

Update on What's Been Happening Lately

Sometime I think it's a good idea to share the fact that I have to do the same kinds of things as most everyone else.

Lately, I've been getting up earlier and earlier in order to work on the ghost writing project I'm involved with. I usually enjoy doing this--partly because I know the money will be forthcoming--but this one has been a bit more difficult than usual. Somewhat like doing a puzzle, trying to figure out where all the pieces fit.

Today, though, I had to fit in a few other chores. The dishwasher had to be run and three loads of laundry done--which then meant the dishes had to be put away, and the clean clothes folded. I also had to order a few things for the bedroom we're remodeling. I made lunch for hubby and I then a dinner that we can have a couple more times. Didn't do it on purpose, but after cooking for a family of seven, then for our six ladies when we had the care home, I still haven't figured out how to cook for two.

Hubby usually helps a lot, but right now he's the only one working on the remodeling project and I sure don't want to slow that down.

I've been asked to do a five day appearance on a blog--which means five separate articles that hopefully will be interesting enough for others to want to read, have to squeeze that in somewhere along the line.

My own manuscript is on the back-burner at the moment. This is killing me, as I'm at the most exciting spot, but to do it justice, I can't have something else hanging over my head. The ghost writing project is my first priority at the moment.

Saturday I'll be giving a presentation to the Writers of Kern on electronic publishing. Sunday, except for teaching Sunday School, I don't work. Next week we need to get packed and ready to head for Omaha and Mayhem in the Midlands. That will be a nice break. I know from experience, I won't get much work done--Mayhem is too much fun and there are too many people I'm anxious to see.

And that's what has been happening lately.

a.k.a. F. M. Meredith

Thursday, May 14, 2009

New Review for No Sanctuary

Hail, fellow readers!

Before you pick up a book by F.M. Meredith, do yourself a favor—reserve time for an uninterrupted read. Once you start reading, you won’t want to stop. No matter the topic, this author has an undeniable gift for hooking readers from page one and not letting go until its conclusion. No Sanctuary delivers well-developed characters and an intriguing plot with a surprising twist at the end. Congratulations, F.M. Meredith, on another winner. No Sanctuary qualifies as a fast and satisfying read. Loved it!

-- Karen Kavanagh, former Co-president of Sisters in Crime-CCC.

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

The TV Show Medium

Medium is one of my favorite shows on TV for several reasons.

I love the supernatural aspect of the stories--the writers do a great job of coming up with new ideas each week.

The main character looks like a real woman, one who might be your neighbor or the gal down the street. Her teeth on perfect, she's bit on the plump side, and though she's nice looking, she's not a raging beauty.

She and her husband love one another. He puts up with a lot--but continues to support her because he understand her gift--which sometimes seems to be more like a curse. He's pleasant looking, but not certainly not a handsome leading man type.

They have a family that looks like it might really be theirs. None of the children are perfect specimens though certainly healthy looking. The two oldest girls are good actors. The youngest not so, but she looks like a real kid, a bit gangly and wears glasses.

The show does a great job portraying a woman with a sometimes troubling ability who has a family that is often affected by this ability. And added to the mix, the oldest daughter has inherited her mother's psychic ability and it's being displayed in sometimes frightening ways.

If you haven't watched it before, give yourself a treat. It's on Monday nights at 10.


Tuesday, May 12, 2009

The Start of the Day and My Life in General

I've been arising very early the last couple of weeks--one thing because our bedroom faces East and the rising sun wakes me. Also, I'm in the middle of an exciting ghost writing project and am anxious to get to it every day.

Yesterday, I'd gotten to a stopping point in that project, and wrote about five pages on my own book. It's at the most exciting point and it's hard not to work on it. My allegiance has to be to the ghost writing project at this time though. I'm not under deadline for my own book--though I would like to finish it this summer.

In the evening I went to my regular Bible Study--was wonderful. We're studying David and the three other women who were there last night are so spiritual and refreshing to be around. When I came home I watched Dancing With the Stars and then Medium. By evening time my brain is mush so don't like to do any big projects. Though I did spend some time sticking 2 cent stamps on already stamped envelopes.

Because I've been trying to blog every single day, I know I have to do this right away too. When I first got up, I opened all the windows downstairs to air out the house--but I'll have to shut them soon as the temperature is going up, I can already feel it.

Now, it's time to go back to work.


Monday, May 11, 2009

Where it All Began

I've been writing about Deputy Tempe Crabtree for a long while now. Though Deadly Trail is the first book in this mystery series, it wasn't the first to come out. The publisher I found wanted to begin with Deadly Omen.

Because I wanted Deadly Trail to also be available to readers, I contacted an electronic publisher who also does trade paperbacks, Hard Shell Word Factory, and she was willing to publish it, so it came out later and I promoted it as a prequel.

In Deadly Trail, Tempe is not yet married though the wedding is soon to come about. However, all her plans are put on hold when the owner of the local inn is murdered. The detectives arrest Nick Two John because he's been having an affair with the owner's wife. Tempe doesn't believe her Indian friend is the guilty party and strikes out to find the right person.

In this first book, thanks to Two John, Tempe begins to learn more about her Indian heritage, something she's ignored in the past. As readers of the whole series know, in each book, Tempe learns more and more and becomes enmeshed in the spiritual side of being a Native American--sometimes to the great dismay of her minister husband.

The inn in the story is based on our local inn--the history of the fictional inn mirrors the real one. However, I've changed the appearance and the surrounding territory of my inn a lot. The owner of the real inn told me she wished her inn was more like the fictional one.

The launch for that book was held in the inn--great fun for all involved, especially me. That was my first book launch. I'd had lots of booksignings for other books, but never what you'd call an actual launch. Now I do one for every new book I have coming out.

In the book that will be coming out this fall, Dispel the Mist, Tempe will have an encounter with the Hairy Man, a larger than life legend of the Tule River Indians. More about that later.

If you haven't read Deadly Trail and would like to, you can get an autographed copy from my website--if you mention this blog, I'll pay the postage--or you can purchase it from or Amazon.

Marilyn a.k.a. F. M. Meredith

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Planning for Promotions

When I was first starting out, I read and listened to what everyone was doing for promotion--and frankly, I still do, though perhaps not with quite as much diligence as I did in the beginning.

This is what I have coming up in the next few months--perhaps this will give some of you authors an idea or two about something you've never tried before.

On Saturday, May 15th, I'll be speaking to Writers of Kern (a branch of California Writers) about e-publishing, the topic they requested.

Wednesday, May 19th we're headed for Mayhem in the Midlands in Omaha. This is my favorite mystery con--only 200 people can come and the majority are readers. I'll be on two panels and moderating a third. For a mystery writer this is a fantastic con.

On June 13th, I'll be on a panel about electronic publishing for the California Crime Writers conference--again, I was asked to do this.

We'll be headed to Las Vegas the middle of the next week for the Public Safety Writers Conference. I'm the program chair for this one and we've increased our registration by 100% this year. We've got 31 coming. I'm really excited. This is a small writing conference, but is it ever a good one.

On the fourth of July, I'll have a booth in Exeter's park. Did it last year and it was a lot of work, but great fun.

On the 11th, I'm talking about both of my latest books at the Beale Memorial Libary in Bakersfield. I got this gig by e-mailing the nearest libraries and offering my services.

I'm going to be selling by books for three days at the Santa Maria Fair, July 15-17, from 11 to 4. I've never done this before, we'll see how it turns out.

In August, on the 22nd, I'll be talking about how to write a mystery at the Fine Arts and Books Festival in San Juan Capistrano.

So you can see I'll be busy--hope my list has given you a few ideas.

Marilyn a.k.a. F. M. Meredith

Saturday, May 9, 2009

Mother's Day Thoughts

Tomorrow is Mother's Day. Frankly, I'm happy with a card and going out to dinner--even if I'm the one paying for it.

My own mother died about three years ago at the age of 97. Her mind was sharp until the end, her body was worn out.

I was raised during the time when most mom's stayed home. During the war years (I'm speaking of World War II), mom figured out how to feed us even though she had to use food stamps, still managed to bake birthday cakes and her famous Conga cookies. She grew a Victory garden and fed us vegetables out of it. When she went to school for PTA meetings wearing a hat, dress, stockings (even though they were hard to come by).

My dad rode his bike to work--long way--so we could save our gas coupons for going to church, mother's weekly grocery shopping trips, our Friday nights at the movies, and for our summer vacations at Bass Lake.

We made trips to downtown L.A. on the streetcar to shop at basement bargain sales and to take advantage of free programs for kids.

Mom cooked our breakfast, packed our school lunches--we always had the same thing--1/2 a baloney sandwich and 1/2 cheese sandwich, 3 cookies, a raw carrot, and a piece of fruit. Dinners were more exciting though sometimes we just had beans--loved them.

Back in that time, if you misbehaved you got spanked. Mother's instrument of punishment was a yard stick that you could get free at paint and lumber stores. She didn't use it often--it was only when you broke a big rule. One of the "big" rules was getting home by 5 p.m. every night for supper. Otherwise we were free to roam where we pleased. Lying was another reasons for a swat with the yard stick. Didn't happen often--but it did happen.

Mom was always a prayer warrior. Though I know she prayed for us when we were kids, she really prayed after we grew up and she worried about us straying. When kids started arriving, she prayed for each one faithfully. Oh how she loved the babies.

Our first was born 3000 miles away. When I got pregnant, mom went to work for the first time in her life to save the money to buy the gas to make the trip. My first (and her first grandchild) was always her favorite--everyone knew it.

When she was in her last year of life, that granddaughter and husband took her on a two week motor home trip. She never got out of the motor home, but she had a great time looking out the window, playing board games and reminiscing as the went to all of her favorite haunts in Southern California.

The summer before, my sis and hubby where she lived took a vacation, and I went to care for her. We had a great time and I cooked all her favorite foods--the ones we used to have as special treats during our growing up years--meals my sister never cooked.

My sis celebrated her 50th anniversary on a week long cruise to Mexico and paid for all of her kids, grandkids, and greats to go. Mom went on that trip, so I went too along with one my daughters. I'm so glad I did because I was able to spend some really quality time with mom.

I miss her, especially with Mother's Day coming. I miss the letters she wrote me at least three times I week. I miss spending time with her. But I know she's exactly where she wants to be, in Heaven with my dad, and my oldest son who passed away with cancer and all of her many relatives and friends.

Happy Mother's Day Mom. Thank you for everything you did for me throughout your life.

Marilyn a.k.a. F. M. Meredith

Friday, May 8, 2009

Wrongful Death by Robert Dugoni

Author Dugoni did a terrific job of writing a story about something that could be going on right now, and probably is.

When the widow of a solider killed in Iraq asks him to represent her in a wrongful death suit against the government, he reluctantly takes the case. It isn't long before he realizes there is far going on than the widow realizes.

The action starts almost immediately, the lawyer's wife and children are threatened, witnesses are killed, and the lawyer almost loses his life.

A true page-turner.

Marilyn Meredith,

Thursday, May 7, 2009

A Day Behind

Because I'm busily working on a ghost writing project, I've neglected some of the other things I usually do, like writing a new blog every day.

Last night I attended my writer's critique group that I've belonged to for 28 years. Of course there I'm reading my own work in progress which I'm not working on at the moment. I will fix the chapter I brought and once I feel I'm doing well on the ghost writing project, I'll take a day each week to work on it. I'm actually nearing the end of that one--and it's the most exciting part and I'd love to devote my time to it.

However, the ghost writing part is paid for so I'm obligated to give the majority of my attention to it, I have a due date--so I'm working under a bit of pressure .

Tomorrow though, is date day for hubby and me. That means I won't be doing much writing at all. I try to write at least five days a week, so I'll make up for it on Saturday.

So that brings you up to date on what I've been up to and why I'm a day behind.

Marilyn a.k.a. F.M. Meredith

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

New Review at Books Bytes for No Sanctuary

Three ½ Paws
No Sanctuary

"F. M. Meredith’s Rocky Bluff series set in California falls somewhere between police procedural and the character importance and lighter reading more typical of the cozy. Police officer Stacy Wilbur has a five year old son and lives with her parents. Her love interest is homicide detective Doug, who shares a house with another cop Gordon. Gordon’s enthusiasm for the job leads him to funny encounters and provides comic relief. Sgt. Abel Navarro deals with his own home situation. The varied family life of each officer adds a lot of interest to the story.

Stacy finds a car that has hit a tree. Inside, a woman's body that is eventually recognized as the wife of a local clergyman. She has been shot. Investigation turns to a second minister and wife. Are these couples swingers or is something else involved here?

Other crimes are being investigated as well, and as a result of her work on a special investigation, Stacy is offered a promotion. Meredith offers an interesting look at police work from the viewpoint of the individuals involved.

Shirley - RAM at Books Bytes"

It's always interesting to see how a book I've written is perceived by a reader and/or reviewer.

Marilyn a.k.a. F.M. Meredith

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

A For Real Romantic Tale

The bride has been in our life since she was 16. An abused child, she ran away from home and we took her in. By the time she was 18, she and our youngest son had fallen in love and married. Two sons came from that union--the young men in the photo.

Unfortunately, the love and the marriage didn't last. Deb had hard times and made some poor choices. We raised both boys for awhile, during grammar school years. The eldest went back home. We had the youngest until he was 20.

In the meantime, Deb's best friend died tragically. She and the widower mourned together. The inevitable happened, love and finally followed by the wedding we enjoyed on Sunday.

There is far more to the story of course, Deb married another time and had a daughter. That husband just couldn't stay away from the booze and the drugs. Life was tough for a long while. Deb supported herself and her family by working as a waitress in the same restaurant for years. The same restaurant where the reception was held yesterday.

Her story would make a great Lifetime movie.

My prayer is that this will be a and they lived happily ever after ending.

a.k.a. F. M. Meredith

Monday, May 4, 2009

Sunday's Wedding

This an ex-daughter-in-law's wedding. Turned out wonderful.

She was given away by my two grandsons, Nick and Nathan. The flower girl is my great-granddaughter Kay'Lee.

Beautiful day, and lots of happy people.

So happy for the new Mrs. John Wagner--she got a great man and another daughter as well as another grandchild.


Sunday, May 3, 2009

On Blogging and Other Subjects

I've tried to write a new blog every day--not sure I'm going to be able to do that in the next few weeks.

I've already got a hectic schedule and it's going to get more-so since I've just received the go-ahead on a major ghost writing project. Because ghost writing pays much better than my own writing, I'm always happy to do one. The only problem is that they always seem to be offered to me when I'm at my busiest.

I'm still promoting both No Sanctuary and Kindred Spirits which means lots of social networking which takes a lot of time, to say nothing of thinking up something to say that just might lead to someone being interested in purchasing one of my books.

I still have a couple of conferences to attend and some speaking engagements. Love to do them all, but squeezing on my writing isn't going to be easy.

So much for retirement. I don't think I'll ever experience that as long as I'm able to sit in front of my computer.

Marilyn a.k.a. F. M. Meredtith

Saturday, May 2, 2009

About Birds

I'm not what you'd call a bird lover. I don't have a bird feeder nor do I try to identify the many varieties that land in our yard.

When we lived in Oxnard (coastal city in California) seagulls were abundant. (Back when I hung clothes on the line outside--with five children that was a lot of clothes--sometimes the seagulls would leave a mess on the flapping clothing and I'd have to wash it all over again.) My son raised four ducklings from their eggs and they followed him around the house like he was their mother.

Now we live in the foothills of the Southern Sierra with an abundance of birds. When we first moved here giant condors still few around. That was quite a sight! Now buzzards are the frequent clean-up crew circling overhead.

Blackbirds or ravens of every variety arrive daily to eat bugs. At the moment, we have lots feeding in the field in front of our house because hubby mowed it recently.

Geese and ducks are frequent visitors too--some pause in the swimming hole created by the Tule River as it flows by the back of our property to swim and catch fish.

I do have a favorite bird--a Great Blue Heron. He is a frequent visitor too. He'll stand out in the field for hours patiently waiting for a gopher to poke its head out of a hole. He's a good hunter and catches lots.

I've written about the Great Blue Heron in a couple of my books. Unequally Yoked is one. That book has been out of print, but Mundania Press will be reissuing it soon as an e-book and trade paperback. It is part of the Deputy Tempe Crabtree series. The book following, Intervention, also mentions the Great Blue Heron and in this mystery, it has supernatural qualities.

I'm always tickled when I see one of these strange prehistoric looking birds standing on their long, skinny legs while hunting. When a Great Blue is flying, it takes on a certain grace.

For someone not particularly fond of birds, I had plenty to say about them, didn't I?

Marilyn a.k.a. F. M. Meredith

Friday, May 1, 2009

Today is a Goof Off Day

We don't take many of these days where we leave the house to do something fun. Today our plan is to take in a movie and have lunch in our favorite Thai restaurant.

If you've been reading my blog regularly, you know we went to L.A. last weekend to attend the L.A. Times Book Festival on the UCLA campus. Despite the fact we were away from home and ate our meals out, it was anything but goof off time. Because I had signing times both days, it meant traipsing down the hill from the parking garage to the festival itself (not easy when hauling books), finding the signing spot(s) and being there at the right time. And of course, going back up the hill to the parking garage, still hauling books--though a few were sold each day.

On Monday, company arrived--eldest daughter and son-in-law. They were here for three days and yes, that was goof off time too--but I had to squeeze in the "have-tos" on the computer, doing a bit of laundry and cooking a few meals.

We did eat out a couple of times. Once at a new barbecue place someone had told me about. Another hole-in-the-wall place--if one is brave enough to try these, you can often find a gem. Two young Hispanic men are doing this one. The barbecued chicken was great as were the beans and corn on the cob. Then our kids treated us to lunch another day at Coffee Etc., one of our favorite places in our home town. The food is all homemade and hubby says their Rueben sandwiches are the best anywhere. He is an expert on Rueben's having eaten them all over the country.

We enjoyed spending time with the kids. I should stay home and write, but we both feel the need to escape for a day since we know our weekend will be hectic.

So that's what we'll be doing today.

Marilyn a.k.a. F. M. Meredith